What is Pedophilic Disorder? Does the Rumored Relationship Between Kim Soo Hyun and Kim Sae Ron Fall Into This Category?

Recently, the rumored relationship between famous Korean actors Kim Soo Hyun and Kim Sae Ron has been widely discussed, particularly the claim that Kim Sae Ron may have had a relationship with Kim Soo Hyun when she was just 15 years old. This has led many to question whether such behavior could be considered “pedophilic.” Today, I will explain this condition from a medical perspective to help everyone better understand.

What is Pedophilic Disorder?

Pedophilic Disorder is one of the psychiatric conditions classified under Paraphilic Disorders, which relate to atypical sexual interests. According to the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition), a person is diagnosed with Pedophilic Disorder if they experience recurrent, intense sexual urges, fantasies, or behaviors involving prepubescent children (typically under the age of 13) for a period of more than six months. These symptoms must cause significant distress or lead to harmful behavior toward children. Therefore, Pedophilic Disorder is a mental illness—not merely a sexual preference.

Age-Gap Relationships vs. Pedophilic Disorder

Many people misunderstand and believe that anyone involved with a much younger partner is necessarily a pedophile. In reality, Pedophilic Disorder refers specifically to sexual attraction toward prepubescent children. A relationship between an adult and a teenager is a separate matter and should be considered in the context of the law, morality, and cultural norms.

In the case of the rumored relationship between Kim Soo Hyun and Kim Sae Ron, if we consider it from a medical standpoint, Kim Sae Ron at age 15 would fall under early adolescence, a stage in which physical and hormonal development has already begun. Therefore, if a relationship did occur, it would be more appropriately categorized as an age-gap relationship rather than Pedophilic Disorder. However, other factors must also be considered—such as power dynamics and the potential long-term psychological impact on the adolescent.

What Behaviors Should Be Watched For?

Even though age-gap relationships can be a personal matter, when they involve minors or teenagers, special attention should be paid to the following concerns:

 1. Power Imbalance – If the older partner holds a significantly more powerful position (such as being a celebrity, teacher, or coach), the relationship could be unequal or exploitative.

 2. Psychological Manipulation (Grooming) – Individuals with abusive intentions may gradually build trust and manipulate the child into accepting inappropriate behavior.

 3. Long-term Psychological Impact – Adolescents who engage in relationships with adults may later experience emotional confusion and are at risk of developing mental health issues, such as depression, guilt, or dysfunctional relationships in the future.

What Should Society Be Aware Of?

 • A relationship between an adult and a younger adolescent does not necessarily indicate Pedophilic Disorder. It is essential to consider the full context, including whether there was coercion, manipulation, or abuse of power.

 • Society should avoid jumping to conclusions too quickly and instead seek accurate, evidence-based information.

Ultimately, this news has had a wide-reaching impact on both individuals and society, raising awareness about unhealthy relationships. I encourage everyone to consume information in moderation, as excessive exposure may lead to increased stress among those following the news.

My heartfelt condolences go out to the family of the person affected.

Dr. B
Psychiatrist
Joy of Minds Clinic